Friday, April 26, 2019

Edification?

Edification. During my time in the Amway business, we saw many Amway IBOs get edified, including myself. Of course it felt great when your upline platinum or diamond would say something that made you stand out in the crowd. For example, I remember an IBO being exalted because he quit his job to attend a major function. His boss wouldn't allow him to use vacation time so he quit to attend the function. I remember Brad Wolgamott telling people it's just a job, attend the function and get another one (job). I remember at a family reunion function, a man was edified by the diamonds because he was diagnosed with terminal cancer but instead of being at home and bitching and moaning, there he was at an Amway function, making a difference in the world they would say. But looking back, I truly believe that the upline's intentions were to uplift those who went thru extraordinary efforts to spend money on tools or functions.

In other words, you are buying your edification. Of course when I say you are buying your edification, you are not necessarily doing so in dollars. It can either be in dollars or in time. For example, you may have been edified for listening to 15 standing orders in one day, or you may be edified for driving the miles to show plans, even if the guest was a no-show. I also recall some IBOs in the group being edified for 1000 PV personal use in a month. I honestly don't know who anyone can possibly do 1000 PV in personal use without the purchase of some big ticket items. I mean how much SA8 or LOC can anyone use in the month? I suppose that you could make Nutrilite vitamins your main source of food or something like that and move a lot of PV, but it's ridiculous to spend that much on personal use.

So to what extent are you willing to go to get edified? For my upline sponsor, it was what he lived for. My sponsor was/is a physician and he therefore could have a nice lifestyle without Amway but he was more interested in the recognition and edification. He ate it up when he was asked to speak at a function once. He told the group in a night owl that the dream of being on stage as a diamond was more important to him than the money. Sadly, he never got beyond the platinum level as far as I know and last I heard, he was below 4000 PV. Whatever your dream or reason for building Amway, I honestly believe you need to look at the cost of it. For example, you wouldn't sell your soul to the devil in order to go diamond. I actually wonder how my former sponsor feels these days now that our upline diamond (his hero) has moved to Washington and he cannot spend much time with him anymore?

The cost of edification in Amway is high. Are you willing to foot that bill? I'm glad I woke up and decided that there are much better ways to spend my time, money and efforts. Joecool's blog is one of the better things. :-)

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

In Amway, all that "edification" means is that somebody kisses your ass publicly. You take some bows as a pompous Platinum jackass orates on how wonderful and devoted and energetic you are in pushing the Amway racket.

Some guy has terminal cancer, and he's at an Amway "function"? What the hell for? Does Amway now sell coffins? Or does he plan on dying in a cheap convention hotel?

Telling someone to quit his job in order to attend one of those stupid "functions" is a criminal act. If Brad Wolgamott did that, he's an evil piece of shit. A man's job, even if it isn't the best one, still provides a man with what he needs to support his family. What the hell does some goddamned Amway function provide? Boring speeches from some fat-assed Diamond? A lot of rah-rah cheering? A slide-show of houses and cars? Crappy songs from the Goads? Some fake minister preaching about "The Amway Christian Fellowship"?

If you are desperate for "edification," there's something wrong with you. You lack character. You have no iron in your spine. You're a weakling. You're a loser. You need other people to tell you that you're great, because deep down you know that you aren't.

Anonymous said...

Sounds like that member of your up line suffers from NPD.